it seems that it's a break-up season these few months...
in less than 3 months for me getting into new semester...
i'd been seeing so many couples one by one, who turns from N/A to S/A...
and as you could guess from my post title...
Distance is the leading reason given...is really distance a problem in a relationship..?Err..Hmm...Some say yes..Some say no...
But for me...i would say NO!distance shouldn’t be a problem....
if your love is still strong...
it's really undeniable that when you are in a long-distance relationship...
the couple can no longer see each other as often as they used to...yup...it's true that’s true that sometimes you can’t see their face and there are times that he/she couldn’t be by your side in time of need...
example got to go shopping alone...attend your friend birthday party w/o your partner....
and yup sometimes you will be questioning yourself" why it seems that I’m leading single life more when I’m actually in a relationship...?"
But then,why there are still a lots of couples that can make it thru?the best example i would give is my story ..
he is from Kl but he travel a lot when he was studying he was in Pahang,
now he travel a lot to Sarawak,Australia,englang,paris,india,and other places on earth..
she was here in m'sia waiting...in that 4 yrs time...never once I and he....imagine...it is already 2yrs....the era with MSN, sms, skype, 3G, web cam...
but when he is abroad there was no 3G THIS jokes,and message from him but but now there's couple stickin to each othr 24-7....class togthr...eat togthr... do everythg 2gthr....but end up breakin up too... ?so i would say...distance itself wasnt really a problem....
but when he is abroad there was no 3G THIS jokes,and message from him but but now there's couple stickin to each othr 24-7....class togthr...eat togthr... do everythg 2gthr....but end up breakin up too... ?so i would say...distance itself wasnt really a problem....
it's all depends on how we look at it...it's not all about who waiting for who...
but it's all about we both waiting for each other... for me there was time that i need him by my side, so do him!he have times that he miss me so badly and i wish i could see him, so do him!he have times that wish to be hugged so much, so do me!we have the same fear of losing each otherbut it's love+trust+confidence in him and MYSELF+confidence in him that make us got true...
it's the strong feelings that makes him to hold on no matter how hard it was ...
but then there was time when we break down and need
SUPORT FROM EACH OTHER..And we keep our promise and now
when he goes abroad we still miss each other..
when he goes abroad we still miss each other..
so when some of us break up we will use distance as the reason but have we ever think what is the main reason for that incident
please dun blame it wholly on distance...
